Why do generations label and blame other generations? Earlier this year, I heard the statement, “Every generation throws the next generation under the bus.” I cannot remember the source, but the statement stuck with me. Perhaps because it’s true on a number of levels. Why? I don’t know. Read on to glean some possible answers . . . 

Perhaps there are some reasons this “blame game” happens in the workplace, educational institutions, government and even in our churches. Let me offer five suggestions: 

Historical Context:

Historical events and societal changes can create tension between generations. For example, older generations might blame younger ones for not appreciating the sacrifices made during past wars or economic hardships, while younger generations might blame older ones for perpetuating inequality or environmental problems or the scarcity of natural resources. 

Economic Disparities:

Economic disparities between generations, such as differences in wealth, job opportunities, and access to resources, can contribute to blame and resentment. Younger generations might blame older ones for creating economic policies that benefit them at the expense of younger people. 

Media Influence:

Media portrayal of different generations can also contribute to intergenerational blame. Negative stereotypes perpetuated by the media can fuel animosity between generations. This can be toxic when fueled through social media and other media outlets. 

Fear of Change:

Resistance to change is a common human trait, and when one generation perceives rapid changes brought about by another generation, it may lead to fear and blame as a way to cope with uncertainty. Additionally, when changes are made without listening to others and understanding their stories and situations in life, resentment only worsens.  

Political Divides:

Political polarization can exacerbate intergenerational conflict, with each generation blaming the other for political and social problems. Often, one generation will stereotype another as “blue” or “red” or conservative or liberal, and this only adds to the division among the generations.  

Finding Hope for the Generational Divide 

There is hope! As Christians, we are “citizens of heaven” (Philippians 3:20) and we desire to bridge the generational differences to find common ground for Jesus’ sake. Paul also writes that we are individually members of the body of Christ. (1 Cor. 12:27). And Jesus prayed that we would be one (John 17:20-23). As I said in Sunday’s message, we are better together. We can do more together than we ever could alone! Tim Elmore is the founder and CEO of Atlanta based “Growing Leaders” and has done extensive work on generational collaboration. He writes, “Mixing generations keeps the elders young at heart and matures young people.”¹ Elmore also states, “Recognizing generations enables us to connect with others distinctively. The goal is not to stereotype but to understand.”² 

In the sermon on Sunday, I shared that there are seven generations living in today’s society. All seven are represented in our church, from “The Greatest Generation” to “Generation Alpha.” Time did not permit me to unpack the definitions, so I have included them in this week’s pastor’s article. Perhaps knowing more about other generations will help us listen to their stories, understand their circumstances and empathize with their needs.  

1. The Greatest Generation (born roughly 1901-1927): This generation grew up during the Great Depression and fought in World War II. They are known for their resilience, resourcefulness, and commitment to duty. 

2. The Silent Generation (born roughly 1928-1945): Coming of age during the post-war period, this generation is characterized by their conformity, conservatism, and focus on stability. They were also instrumental in the civil rights movement and cultural change. 

3. Baby Boomers (born roughly 1946-1964): The post-World War II baby boom resulted in a large population surge during this period (some 76 million babies born during this period). Baby Boomers are associated with social change, idealism, and the Civil Rights movement. They also witnessed significant technological advancements, and many wanted the normalcy of marriage and family and the purchase of a home. 

4. Generation X (born roughly 1965-1980): Often called the “Latchkey Generation,” Gen Xers grew up during a time of increasing divorce rates and dual-income households.  They are known for their independence, skepticism, and adaptability, shaped by economic uncertainty and rapid technological change. (From Pastor Bob — This is my generation – I was born in 1967.) 

5. Millennials or Generation Y (born roughly 1981-1996): Millennials are known for their digital nativism, growing up alongside the Internet and experiencing the rise of social media. They value work-life balance, diversity, and social justice. Economic challenges, such as student loan debt, have shaped their outlook. 

6. Generation Z (born roughly 1997-2012): Also referred to as the “iGeneration” or “Zoomers,” Gen Z grew up fully immersed in digital technology.  They are characterized by their entrepreneurial spirit, social consciousness, and desire for authenticity. Diversity and inclusion are central to their worldview. 

7. Generation Alpha (born roughly 2013-present): This generation is still young, but they are growing up in an increasingly digital and globalized world.  Often the children of Millennials, Gen Alpha is expected to be the most technologically savvy and diverse generation yet, with a strong emphasis on innovation and sustainability. 

Younger Gen Z and Generation Alphas are “digital natives” — they don’t remember a time without smart phones, digital helpers like Siri, Alexa, and Google Assistant, or cars with screens and self-driving capabilities. 

In closing, can you imagine the energy that we could harness if the generations could work together toward the common good? This is where Christians have the edge. We have a calling from God to be a unified body. When each part plays her or his role, we can do amazing things for God! Let’s make this our prayer as we embrace the generations, serving God together! 

In Christ’s care,